About Me
My name is Mili – Milica (Kalik) Sekulic – and I have over 25 years practical and academic experience of working with individuals, children, young people and families.
Allow me to introduce myself
My name is Mili – Milica (Kalik) Sekulic – and I have over 25 years practical and academic experience of working with individuals, children, young people and families.
I was born and grew up in Belgrade, Serbia and for the last 20 years I have lived in Berkshire, England.
When I work with a person I look at the big picture. My aim is to help you explore what is happening in your life and understand why you are where you are and how to move forward. In this way you can make life long changes and feel happier and more fulfilled. I want you to feel that you a living the life you always wanted.
That’s a big ask, and to make this happen it is important for you to find the right person to work with. To make the decision about whether I am that person, you need to know a little about me, so below are what I believe to be my strengths:
I am direct – I say it like it is!
I am intellectually curious – I am one of those people that likes to find out about everything, from psychology to electronics, from cooking to sports and music.
I am creative – my sessions are tailored to your individual needs. Every person who comes to me has a unique combination of history and strengths so I do not believe in a ‘one size fits all’ approach.
I am kind – I always look for the best in people and offer compassion and support to you in your journey towards your goals.
Achieve your goals with me
Ready to take your leap into a clearer and happier life? I will work closely with you to provide you with the very support, allowing you to overcome your issues and work towards a positive and new life. Book a consultation with me today.
My Qualifications
Psychology training:
CYP IAPT (2016) – therapeutic work with children and young people with low and moderate anxiety and depression
Msc in Applied Positive Psychology (2015) – scientific study of the strengths, resilience and positive emotions that enable individuals and communities to thrive.
Transaction al Analysis Level 101 (1987) and Level 202 (1997) – is a psychoanalytic theory and method of therapy where social transactions are analysed to determine the ego state of the client (whether parent-like, child-like, or adult-like) as a basis for understanding behaviour.
RADIX – Body Psychotherapy – Basic Level – founded by Charles Kelly who was a student of Wilhelm Reich, Radix is a Body Psychotherapy that studies and improves interactions between the client/patient’s body and mind
Bsc in Educational Psychology (1990) with Theses ‘School that I like’
Parenting training:
Incredible Years Wester Stratton program (2009 )– basic parenting program – baby, toddler and primary school
Triple P parenting programme – Level 3 and 4 (2007) – A broadly focused parenting support intervention for parents of birth to teens and teenagers up to 16 years of age. After thorough family assessment, parents set their own goals, learn ways to encourage positive behaviour for the child, and teach their child new skills such as problem solving, conflict resolution, and self-regulation. Parents identify the influences on the child’s behaviour and set their own goals for change. Parents also learn ways to use appropriate consequences for problem behaviour (e.g. breaking family rules, taking inappropriate risks, emotional outbursts).
Triple P Level 5 – Enhanced Triple P (2010) – family interventions which address family factors that may impact upon, and complicate, the task of parenting. These include problems with parental mood and adjustment and partner conflict.
Triple P Level 5 – Pathways Triple P (2010) – is a comprehensive parenting intervention for parents at risk of maltreating their children.
Triple P Family Transition (co-facilitator) (2017) – designed for parents who are experiencing personal distress from separation or divorce, which is impacting on or complicating their parenting.
Professional Memberships
CONTACT ME
Feel free to get in touch.
WHERE I WORK
I work within a 30 mile radius of Wokingham and hire consultancy rooms when needed. I also provide Skype sessions too.